Abundant Living Vol. XIII, Issue 5

“Remember, O Lord, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes.”  – Isaiah 38:3 

My father-in-law was such an avid golfer who spent so much time on the golf course that golf became almost synonymous with his identity.  But as much as he was connected with the game of golf itself he was equally notorious for the rather colorful language he so often used while playing it.  His golf game and his golf language sort of went hand in hand.

One particularly amusing story occurred several years ago when an unsuspecting stranger was assigned to my father-in-law’s foursome in a tournament.  Thinking his profanities were directed at him, after the first few holes the poor guy was about to walk off the course having had enough of being offended.  Then my father-in-law missed a put.  “Ah, hit the *#!$%#@*# ball in the hole, you idiot!!” he blurted out at himself.  Then the man realized my father-in-law’s profanities were not intended for him, rather at himself.

Now my father-in-law was an accomplished golfer and a student of the game in every aspect.  Yet as far as I know throughout his seventy of so years of playing he won very few tournaments.  But then winning was never his goal in the first place; rather for him it was all about the personal challenge of striving for excellence at his own game.  Golf, you see, was more than a hobby for him, it was a calling, a way of life.  It was how he connected with people – and how others connected with him.  And as the unsuspecting stranger eventually learned, that in spite of his notorious self-effacing outbursts my father-in-law was always a gentleman toward his fellow players.

Mother Teresa once said, “I do not pray for success, I ask for faithfulness.”  So it was that my father-in-law’s golf game was all about striving for excellence, not attaining success.  It was about faithfulness to his calling, not winning tournaments and trophies.  That is why he was so hard on himself, why he is remembered as much by his colorful language as his love for the game – why so many of his missed puts were followed by his infamous outbursts.  I’ve always imagined that even God must have been amused, who cares much more about faithfulness than success. “Remember, O Lord, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion.”

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